It's well worth reading.
It's also surprising to see that quite a few comments are against it generally - it seems like a lot of people have been waiting to read something like this. Here's one comment as an example:
As someone who is both gay and adopted I find it absolutely abhorrent the amount of couples I know who seem to think nothing of raising a child completely separated from one of its biological parents.
The rallying cry seems to be the outdated notion that only the people who raised you are your parents and the resulting children should remain grateful and naive about the process. Anyone who has been in a similar situation will tell you life is more complicated than that. Simply loving someone doesn't trump their basic biological drive to understand their identity.
This is much more complex than smiling pictures of babies and happy families implies. And it's an issue I feel like the media and public is largely ignoring because they don't want to trample on anyone's notion of 'gay rights.'
I am totally against surrogacy. if a married couple are that desperate for children then they should adopt.
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