Here's another thought that I choose to speak in the open here: there seems to me to be a disproportionate number of gay people in stand up comedy in Australia at the moment.
I could be completely wrong - stand up comedy has never been my thing, really. The modern version is too crude, and (with few exceptions) involves too much self disclosure and seems too much of an attempt at self therapy.
But on the ABC, you get to see comedians on panel shows and that's where I have the impression there seem to be a lot of gay stand up comedy.
And the trouble is, I don't find any of them particularly witty or funny. I don't think it's a gay bias thing - I've always found Stephen Fry can be funny and witty, although I think some people do go over the top in their admiration of him. Ellen Degeneres - well, I think she is a bit over rated, but she can be witty and a basic likeability is undeniable.
But Tom Ballard - I find him hard to warm to. Rhys Nicholson - can't see the wit there. Josh Thomas - maybe he doesn't count as a stand up comic, but I was very underwhelmed by what I saw of his dramedy TV show. Hannah Gadsby - surely a case of attempted public therapy, lasting years and years now. Seems uncomfortable in anything I see her on.
But perhaps I should warm more to Gadsby, as she has decided to give up stand up and actually sounds
as if she has reached a sensible position about gay identity:
The knotty complexities of the contemporary identity conundrum has been one of the thoughts weighing heaviest on Gadsby.
"I've come to realise I don't like the word queer, for myself at
least, because it takes that concept of identity beyond sexuality, in my
mind. I guess I was born under the star of Nanna. I realise at the
moment there's quite a lot of pressure to declare how you identify,
particularly in the LGBT community, so to be totally honest, I probably
identify as 'Grandma'," she reveals. "The idea of Queerness - with a
capital Q - is about making a statement, so I don't identify as that
because I never set out to go, 'Oh I want to be different.' When I was a
kid, being not normal was incredibly dangerous and unsafe, but I was
powerless to change that, so I was just, y'know, not normal, in a sort
of generic, none specified way. I desperately didn't want to stand out. I
think that's why I've always been friends with old ladies - even though
I'm not that old."
To be fair, I should point out that I have no idea whether I would find stand up by many of our straight comedians very satisfying, either. But I did watch some of a Kitty Flanagan stage show on Stan, and she was OK. I like Tom Gleeson's comic persona of the moment, too.
Not sure why so much of the younger set seems to be gay, though...