Maybe I just wasn't paying attention, but it seemed to me that the media coverage of last weekend's Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras was more restrained than usual.
Everyone seems to have decided to just go with a
default figure of 300,000 spectators, regardless of what the true numbers may be. Well, actually the
SMH still quotes an organiser as saying it attracts "anything up to 400,000", but even that's an improvement over previous year's heights of figure plucking (try
500,000 in 2006.)
I see that there continue to be
some in the gay community who express doubts about its relevance now. But it seems it won't be going for some time yet.
It also seemed odd timing that this morning the media was full of reports about a
new Australian study predicting a big increase in HIV infection coming to some States where condom use is decreasing. Why not report this before the Mardi Gras party, instead of the day after?
In fact, the sexual health news has been relentlessly bleak over the last few weeks.
Nature.com had the headline "HIV can never be cured", based on a new study about how the virus manages to hide out in the gut.
And then what about the finding
that oral sex is leading to an increase in oral cancer in men? Certainly, this was not reported as a gay problem; the main suggestion seemed to be that men can catch it readily from women. But, there's
no doubt that
gay men can spread HPV virus between each other, and (how to put this delicately), as the issue is the
virus getting into the back of the throat, one would imagine that gay men have that area at greater risk than your average heterosexual.
Finally, while Googling for links for this post, I found this recent article on
MSNBC by a woman who married a gay man. (Well, maybe bisexual is more appropriate, but this is how the guy defines himself now, so whatever.) It strikes me as inadvertently funny. It opens with her shock at being diagnosed with chlamydia while pregnant with her 4th (!) child. Yet,as the story unfolds, we learn the following: on her
first date with her husband-to-be, he warned her to not believe any rumours that he was he gay; he also told her he had teenage homosexual experiments; he refused her offers to sleep with him when they were engaged and she was on the pill; he never seemed especially enthusiastic about sex with her after marriage (yet he still had it with her "3 or 4 times a week"); her husband's work friends warned her he was gay; and before she got the STD he confessed he was visiting gay bars.
One suspects that the only thing she hasn't mentioned is his collection of Judy Garland records and enthusiasm for dancing around the house to "Its Raining Men".
She just seemed to me to be a very silly woman.