I like to attack traditional Chinese (or Asian) medicine ideas that lead to endangered animals being killed or mistreated for their imaginary health benefits; but I have another Eastern mystical idea that deserves rubbishing - that men holding back from ejaculation during sex is fantastic for their health. (Not sure whether to blame the Chinese or Indians though - it appears to be endorsed both in yoga and in Taoist ideas. It also appears to have had the famous Zen Buddhist Alan Watts on side.)
I'm talking about this because of
this article at AEON, which takes a somewhat cynical, but still open minded, attitude to the topic.
I just think it's very silly. Oooh - semen is magic and holding onto it makes dudes live almost forever. I mean, really. Sure, if some couples want to have stationary sex and if it makes them feel good, go right ahead, don't let me stop you. But this mystical overlay...
Besides, given the nature of the prostate and studies about ejaculation and prostate problems, it's hard to believe that it is healthier than normal sex.
Here's an amusing part of the article, where the author describes a conference in Thailand he went to (with his wife) in 2015:
To be frank, my first impression of the
Tao Garden’s conference was that it could have made a delicious subject
for another Huxley satire, Ã la Brave New World. The clinic
offered every kind of New Age therapy imaginable, including blood
irradiation with strange blue light, Ayurvedic massage, colonic
irrigation, full-body cupping, and a very painful treatment where
so-called granules in the blood vessels of your anal canal and testicles
are squeezed flat by muscular Thai grandmothers. The ecstatic screams
of Tantra’s female acolytes were so loud at night that nearby condo
owners threatened to call the police. My wife sensibly spent most of her
time sunning herself by the swimming pool, sipping pineapple drinks,
and watching the well-muscled tantrikas do laps in their G-string
briefs, while I attended lectures and demonstrations in such subjects as
‘Preserving the Yang Element’, ‘Nine Sexual Secrets’ and ‘Awakening the
Goddess’.
The next section gets explicit:
The highpoint of the conference was a public demonstration of
ejaculation control training for which a young man among Muir’s
followers had volunteered. (At lunch that day, the same young man had
told my wife and me that he was torn between dedicating himself to
Tantra and becoming a dentist as his parents fervently wished.) The
demonstration took place in a large room whose only furnishings were
floor mats. As the young man disrobed and lay down, Leah Alchin Piper,
Muir’s former lover and now business partner, opened her shirt and began ....
Interested readers can go to the article to finish reading the description. :) It does have its amusing aspects.