In a conversation over some craft beer last weekend, the topic of pagan practices being pretty ugly came up briefly, specifically this practice (referring here to Vikings, but I think the death of chieftains in other societies might have led to this to):
A man couldn’t marry his concubine, thus his wife didn’t feel threatened
by her. They all lived together in the same household. The most
powerful men among the Vikings owned sex slaves. The life of sex slaves
was hard.
When a chieftain died, his men had sex with the sex slave to express
love for their deceased leader. Afterwards, they killed the poor woman
and cremated her together with her master. She would serve him also in
the afterlife.
"...to express love for their deceased leader"! That seems to be putting spin on the practice, to put it mildly.
Another site notes that pre-Christian Vikings took the idea of a male dominance in sex very seriously:
Calling a man by any term which suggested he played
the ‘passive’ or ‘feminine’ part in homosexual sex was considered an
insult so severe that the person who had been insulted had the right to
avenge it in combat. Just the insult itself might be enough to get a man outlawed.
There is no apparent equivalent derogatory term for a man who played the ‘active’ part in homosexual sex. Indeed in ‘Guðmundar saga dýra’ Guðmundar plans to rape a male captive in order to break his spirit. This reflects badly on the slave, but not on the rapist, who is merely demonstrating his manliness.
Both castration and rape of defeated foes was
seen as a good way of making them more effeminate, and therefore easier
to control.
In this context – where the penetrator is
regarded as perfectly normal and admirable, but to be the one being
penetrated is to be shamed, broken, treated as a slave and ridiculed
thenceforth as unmanly – it’s hard to imagine many m/m relationships
existing as between equals.
From yet another article, I don't think I have heard before about men being the specific victims of sacrificial rites led by effeminate priests:
From Saxo Grammaticus, a 12th Century Christian chronicler, comes the
information that the god Freyr was served by gender-variant male priests
who displayed feminized behaviour and employed bells, which were
considered ‘unmanly.’ They apparently enacted a symbolic sacred marriage
in order to “ensure the divine fruitfulness of the season.” A ritual
which took place every nine years, and consisted of the sacrifice of
nine males of every species (including humans) to Freyr, who was
worshipped as an erect phallus. The Priests of Freyr also performed
shape shifting rites with boar masks.The ergi priests who practiced
seidr also performed tasks usually associated with women, such as
weaving and childrearing. The quality of their voices was was referred
to as seid laeti, possibly indicating that some of them were castrati.
Seidrmen were clearly differentiated from men who might occasionally
indulge in same-sex relations & take the active role.The key theme
here is that in surrendering themselves to passive intercourse, the ergi
became a channel for the divine.
I wonder - how did one avoid becoming part of the 9 year festival?
And I can't say I know about Freyr, so here we go:
Freyr (pronounced “FREY-ur;” Old Norse Freyr, “Lord;” sometimes anglicized as “Frey”) is a god who belongs to the Vanir tribe of deities. He’s also an honorary member of the other tribe of Norse gods, the Aesir, having arrived in their fortress, Asgard, as a hostage at the closing of the Aesir-Vanir War.
Freyr was one of the most widely and passionately venerated
divinities amongst the heathen Norse and other Germanic peoples. One Old
Norse poem calls him “the foremost of the gods” and “hated by none.”[1]
The reasons for this aren’t hard to understand; their well-being and
prosperity depended on his benevolence, which particularly manifested
itself in sexual and ecological fertility, bountiful harvests, wealth,
and peace. His role in providing health and abundance was often
symbolized by his fylgja, the boar Gullinborsti (“Golden-Bristled”),[2] and by his enormous, erect phallus.[3]
It shouldn’t be surprising, then, that Freyr was a frequent recipient
of sacrifices at various occasions, such as the blessing of a wedding[4]
or the celebration of a harvest. During harvest festivals, the
sacrifice traditionally took the form of his favored animal, the boar.[5]
This drawing of him (thankfully modest) is a popular one at several site:
Yet a visit from the priests of Freyr was not always a worry:
We know from medieval Icelandic sources that priestesses and/or priests
of Freyr traveled throughout the country on a chariot which contained a
statue of the god.[12] The significance of such processions
is described by the Roman historian Tacitus, who vividly depicts the
processions connected with the early Germanic goddess Nerthus, whose
name is the Proto-Germanic form of the name of Freyr’s father Njord.
When the chariot reached a village or town, the people laid down their
arms and “every iron object” and enjoyed a period of peace and joyful
festivities, reveling in the deity’s kind presence.[13] Such
processions and celebrations appear to have been a common feature of the
worship of the deities the Norse called the Vanir from at least as far
back as the first century CE through the Viking Age.
Back to the human sacrifice story, from another site:
Another Freyr-related sacrifice is the Frøsblot ("Frø-sacrifice",
with Frø being another name for Freyr) as recorded by Saxo Grammaticus,
a Danish scholar who lived c. 1150-1220 CE. In Uppsala, Sweden, a
certain Haddingus is said to have instituted a yearly sacrifice to Freyr
– the Frøsblot - as a way of atonement to the god, something seemingly
linked to the great sacrifice at Uppsala that is supposed to have
happened every nine years.
There may indeed have been a temple
at Uppsala, as a famous account – based on hearsay but usually
considered reasonably to moderately authentic – written by Adam of
Bremen c. 1070 CE argues. Adam writes of a big, golden temple with
statues of Thor, Odin, and Fricco (synonymous with Freyr), the latter
adorned with an "immense phallus" (4). Every nine years, men, horses and
dogs were allegedly sacrificed, their bodies swinging from trees in the
sacred grove. The archaeological record does not support the existence
of a temple, although there are other buildings among which a large hall
have been found dating to between the 3rd and 10th centuries CE.
Anyhow - I'm rather glad to have avoided the era.
As I said on Saturday, the most pleasing aspect of Christianity is that it's a religion that displaced the extremely widespread belief* in the need for continual animal or human blood sacrifice - God partook in the ultimate (self) sacrifice, and doesn't require fresh animal (or human) sacrifice any more. Which is a kind of relief, in a practical sense.
* I was even surprised to read this in Journey to the West. The Monkey King does this:
One day he instructed his four Stalwart Generals to arrange a feast for the six other kings. Oxen and horses were slaughtered, sacrifices were made to Heaven and Earth, and the assembled monsters danced, sang, and drank themselves blotto.